[Bug]: Support for cross-compilation of pnpm packages with lifecycle

[sfc-gh-ptabor]

(Propesed fix contributed in: #1226)

What happened?

I was prototyping installing sharp (https://sharp.pixelplumbing.com/) using bazel.
The created artifact (regardless of using --platform=... flag and constraints for linux) was being built for host's arch (darwin_arm64). I would like the artifact to be build for the requested architecture (driven by --platforms flag or field or transition).

In particular it led to a situation where the artifact couldn't be packed into docker image (using rules_oci), as the built module was for darwin. The node runtime embedded into image was proper, but the dependency was wrong:

.../examples/bazel-out/darwin_arm64-fastbuild/bin/node_modules/.aspect_rules_js/[email protected]/node_modules/sharp/build/Release/sharp-darwin-arm64r8.node

I will send for review a PR with an idea for a fix: #1226

Version

bazel --version
aspect 5.5.2

uname -a
Darwin.... 22.6.0 Darwin Kernel Version 22.6.0: Wed Jul  5 22:22:05 PDT 2023; root:xnu-8796.141.3~6/RELEASE_ARM64_T6000 arm64

http_archive(
    name = "aspect_rules_js",
    sha256 = "7b2a4d1d264e105eae49a27e2e78065b23e2e45724df2251eacdd317e95bfdfd",
    strip_prefix = "rules_js-1.31.0",
    url = "https://github.com/aspect-build/rules_js/releases/download/v1.31.0/rules_js-v1.31.0.tar.gz",
)

How to reproduce

load("@aspect_rules_js//js:defs.bzl", "js_binary", "js_image_layer", "js_run_binary", "js_test")
load("@rules_oci//oci:defs.bzl", "oci_image", "oci_tarball")
load("@npm//:defs.bzl", "npm_link_all_packages")
load("@sfc_container_images_gcbi//:defs.bzl", "sfc_images_from_js_binary")
load("@container_structure_test//:defs.bzl", "container_structure_test")
load("//:blueprint.bzl", "BLUEPRINT")

npm_link_all_packages()

js_binary(
    name = "sharp",
    data = [
        "//node:node_modules/sharp",
    ],
    entry_point = "sharp.js",
)

platform(
    name = "linux_amd64",
    constraint_values = [
        "@platforms//os:linux",
        "@platforms//cpu:x86_64",
    ],
    visibility = ["//visibility:public"],
)

js_image_layer(
    name = "layers",
    binary = ":sharp",
    platform = ":linux_arm64",
    root = "/app",
    visibility = ["//visibility:__pkg__"],
)

% bazel build [--platforms=//node:linux_amd64] node:layers && tar -tvf bazel-bin/node/layers_node_modules.tar.gz | grep Release
INFO: Analyzed target //node:layers (0 packages loaded, 0 targets configured).
INFO: Found 1 target...
Target //node:layers up-to-date:
  bazel-bin/node/layers_app.tar.gz
  bazel-bin/node/layers_node_modules.tar.gz
INFO: Elapsed time: 0.337s, Critical Path: 0.07s
INFO: 1 process: 1 internal.
INFO: Build completed successfully, 1 total action
drwxr-xr-x  0 0      0           0 Jan  1  1970 app/node/sharp.runfiles/sfc_container_images_examples/node_modules/.aspect_rules_js/[email protected]/node_modules/sharp/build/Release
-r-xr-xr-x  0 0      0      248264 Jan  1  1970 app/node/sharp.runfiles/sfc_container_images_examples/node_modules/.aspect_rules_js/[email protected]/node_modules/sharp/build/Release/sharp-darwin-arm64v8.node

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